Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Narcissistic personality disorder

Blah blah blah …
Narcissistic .. Personality .. Disorder.
What?! That’s what I find out lately.
Here, there, everywhere … especially @ facebook.
Not too mention myself in the beginning.

I think it’s normal everybody has that feeling of narcissism.
However .. it is the degree of narcissism of the individual that counts.
I notice since Facebook existed, this narcissism has been getting wider audience.
Sometimes, I giggled at one of my friends’ behaviour.
She or he is not only a normal narcissistic but it’s “over the top” I can say since she or he has this personality disorder. If you can afford it, it’s fine. But .. if you can’t afford it? That’s gonna be disaster at the end.

For small example, every time she or he changes her or his status, he or she changes her or his proflie picture, uploads all pictures with stuff that she or he has. For me this is so freaking out. If she is like a Lady Diana or Katherine Hepburn .. or Lenny Kravits or James Bond …hmm .. probably I still can see she is so beautiful, so so and so. But this is not at all! Well .. money is not an issue for her or him for sure.

The idea, I’m talking about this narcissism is not about .. hell whatever, but the most important for me is that I get to see this in a daily basis, even I already hide it on my superscreen, huh! I can tell what I see in her or his mind. I think her or his mind is actually blank. Pitbull said .. Blanco .. Blanco … that’s right! She or he is thinking that someone is watching me!
Basically she or he is characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance, need for admiration, extreme self-involvement, attention seeking, arrogance, grandiosity, self-importance, malignant self-love.

I felt so sad to see her or him with this condition. Just because they have money, they thought they could buy everything in this world. So totally wrong. They are so needy, need attention, they lack of confidence. Some of them, I know, are not smart for sure. They just want everybody to admit that they are the only ones in this world. Gosh .. the bad thing, if they have kids, they make them look like themselves!! Can you imagine mom-dad and kids all narcissistic?

Hovewer. they’re all there and they’re still my friends. Just ignore it before I got this disorder (not even in the million years!). I only hope someday these people realize that living in this world is not forever, and the time in this world is very limited. Make your life worth once for all.

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