Monday, May 16, 2011

Attachment


Attachment,
Bonding,

A:Whatever you called it!
Q:In anyway?
A:I think so.

Q: Why?
A: Since it’s stuck and  stick with you

Q: How to avoid it?
A: Do not attach.

Q: To whom? What?
A: Whoever, whatever, whenever,.

A: Even your kids? Your husband? Your wife?
Q: Absolutely, especially to your friends and your love one?
A: Why?

Q: If you lose it or far away or whatever, you’re not gonna be insane.
A: right .. is that true?

Q: Try it.
A: I did.

Q: How is it?
A: it’s very difficult, especially with your love one.

Q: right ..
A: I did not attach to my friends as I do not want to depend on them

Q: Two thumbs up! how about your husband?
A: Well .. he taught me to be an independet woman so I can survive if he is not available.

Q: Make a sense, what is the difficult one then?
A: my kids.

Q:Why?
A: I raised them with n' without any help from others except my soul mate.

Q: I can understand perfectly.
A: No, you don’t

Q: Well .. 
A: Don't well, me .. since I don't!  

Q: right .. it's gonna be very short period and you'll see him soon!
A: right .. it's always easier to say it than to do it.

Q: Do not think about him, he'll be fine.
A: right .. he's my world! he's a tiny little hand but makes my hand full of it.

Q: Take your time, enjoy your time alone.
A: I did not enjoy my time alone, I can't.

Q: Why? 
A: since so much different without both of them. They both are very unique.

Q: You missed someone is calling you "mom ..."
A: Yup. I missed it when he said: I am hungry .. could you make me breakfast, mom?  or "Thanks for the dinner, mom! or "I need a morning hug, mom! missed it so very very much. 

Q:Anything else?
A: A lot! he's everything to me, basically can't live without. I need to give him  a big hug and kiss.

love,
mom





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